In the previous post, I talked about the causes of premature sex (and of course, you are very welcome to post any comments and discuss this topic). In this post, I will talk about the effects of premature sex.
Well, well! There is the very obvious one (and the one that happens a lot too): That is, teen pregnancy. From then on, the fights start, the anger escalates, the relationship is torn into tatters...
Or does it?
Well, most likely, from reports, such relationships do eventually plunge into the abyss. However, with the right amount and kind of help, the teen couple can actually blossom and their child eventually grows up into a success.
Not many of such things happen though and all the sob stories start sprouting.
Well that's not the point. The point is that no matter what, premature sex will always bring about consequences, good or bad. Mostly bad, according to statistics.
Now, there are different kinds of consequences to every thing that happens. When a teen couple has premature sex, the consequence could be an unwanted pregnancy, which might lead to abortion, which would result in the psychological scarring (trauma) of the female partner. The male might be traumatized too, however, most likely, it will not happen due to the motives he harboured for having premature sex.
I'm implying that the males are pigs who just want sex for the pleasure. Nothing but pleasure. I think males are more reckless in terms of decision-making when it comes to sex, because they really don't need to worry about the pregnancy since the baby's not in their stomach. He can just run away when he's done with it.
Then there's the problem of what happens when the baby is born. Who's responsible for the child? Naturally, it's the responsibility of who had given the egg and sperm to form the foetus which is now a baby. The mother and father. TEENAGE mother and father. Who don't even have jobs of their own, who don't even have their own source of income, who don't even have their own means of surviving. Let alone take care of a baby.
The other consequences that could arise are quite minor to me in terms of psychological damage. However, if you were to talk about damage done to the teen's future...
Things like getting expelled from school, attaining criminal records and such after getting found out that one had premature sex would ruin the teen's future in many ways.
Thus, this concludes my effects section for premature sex.
Remember, do not have sex unless you're really sure you know what you're doing.
Anything could happen.
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